Avoid A Stalemate
"Private dispute resolution allows people to maintain
confidentiality and resolve their case quickly and economically without
losing control of the outcome." MFD

P.O. Box 2146
Augusta, ME 04338
Tel. 207-623-5088
Fax 888-470-2763
matt@mattdyer.com
Mediation, Reference and Arbitration
Convenient
and Competent Dispute Resolution
Services for the Bar and the Public.
Private Mediation
Mediation is available to resolve any dispute, whether the
matter is
in court or before litigation commences. Mediation can resolve
civil lawsuits for damages, boundary disputes, workplace disputes,
construction contracts and in any other dispute where negotiation has
not produced a settlement between the parties.
It is common today for agreements and contracts to specify that
the
parties must mediate any dispute prior to litigation. This makes
a lot of sense. I have mediated many such disputes and have
helped the parties avoid litigation, saving them substantial time and
money.
Divorces are natural subjects for mediation for several reasons:
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Although the parties are breaking up, if they have
children, it
is
critical that they reach agreement on a number of issues for the
children's welfare. Mediation allows for the careful discussion
and negotiation needed to reach accord,
not
discord. Children deserve a
childhood. Contested divorces in court destroy childhoods and
only leave behind a wealth of unhappy memories. We pretend this
is not happening, but speak to anyone who childhood was scarred by a
bitter divorce.
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Time
and money.
Divorces dragged
through the courts
take
well over a year and often two years to complete. The expense can
be enormous. And, this is at a time when a family living under
one roof, so to speak, (and paying for one roof) has to find a
way to pay for two roofs to live under. And all this while
supporting the
additional cost of litigation out of their own pockets. In the
financial times were are living in, litigating a divorce can spell
financial disaster for a family.
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Privacy.
Private
mediation
is just that -
private.
Outsiders are not made privy to matters and information that are no
one's business but the parties'. Courts are by definition public
institutions.
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Mediation is confidential.
What
is
discussed
in
mediation
cannot
be
used outside the mediation room with few exceptions.
Therefore, one can proceed in mediation without worrying that one's
negotiating positions will be used against them later.
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Control.
A
divorce
trial
involves
handing
one's entire future over to the judge who happens to be sitting
that day in the courthouse. Maine is blessed with some really
good judges, but they are not King Solomon. They don't have more
than half a day or so to
decide what is going to happen to a family they had not even heard of
before
they came to court that day. Your chances of getting your issues
addressed and examined in the detail you want will increase
dramatically in mediation.
Rule 16B Superior Court Mediation
I am on the Superior Court roster of mediators. Since
the
program began in 2002, I have mediated almost every type of case
that is litigated in the Superior Court. My experience as
an attorney representing real people in this court gives me the
experience I need to help resolve them. My background as a claims
adjuster gives me an understanding of the practical concerns of the
insurance industry that some mediators do not possess.
References are available upon request.
Arbitration
Arbitration provides the parties with an opportunity to have their
case decided on their own schedule without the cost and delay of a full
lawsuit. Arbitration can be confidential. And, it is
particularly suited for matters where the parties need a decision now,
and not months or years from now.
Arbitration is always done because the parties have elected to do so
and have signed an agreement stating that they want arbitration
and will abide by the arbitrator's ruling. Generally,
an arbitrator's ruling will be simple and to the point. It will
state the ultimate finding and nothing more. Sometimes people ask
for a "reasoned" ruling, meaning they want the arbitrator to make
findings of fact and conclusions of law. This is not the norm,
but it is done.
One interesting feature of arbitration is that the Rules of Evidence
do not apply. The arbitrator must only consider reliable
evidence, but it is possible that some matters that would not be
admissible in court would be fully admissible in an arbitration.
Therefore, an arbitration is much less formal than a trial.
Reference
Under Rule 53, Maine Rules of Civil Procedure, the parties may
ask
for their case to be sent to a "referee". This is not a person in
a striped shirt. They are essentially electing to send the
matter to a private judge. They make this election by filing a
motion with the court asking the court to appoint the person they have
selected to be the referee.
The referee conducts a hearing and
renders a decision just as a judge would. This decision is called
a "report", and it is sent to the court for a judge's for
approval. The judge will approve the decision unless someone
files an objection. (An objection is like an appeal of a judge's
ruling in a case a judge tried.) The parties may agree before the
hearing to be bound by the referee's decision and waive any objection
to the report.
A hearing before a referee is usually conducted in a conference
room
without the public being there. The Rules of Evidence and Civil
Procedure apply just as they do in a trial in court.
A referee's report will include findings of fact and
conclusions of
law, just like a judge's decision.
Reference is often used in cases that might take a huge amount
of
time to try and the party's resources to support such a trial are
limited. Family matters and boundary disputes often fall into
this classification. The parties can control when the case is
tried and not be subjected to the "on again, off again" trailing docket
that causes many cases to be prepared more than once for trial.
If expert testimony is required, the experts can be given a specific
appointment time to testify and not spend hours waiting around in the
courthouse or being put on telephone standby.
Family matters can wait and wait for trial time. They get
on
line behind so many other cases in the courthouse, i.e., criminal
cases, juvenile cases, child protection matters, etc. Meanwhile,
the frustration of delay often leads the parties to taking steps that
make things worse.
Hearings before referees are not in public, and therefore a
great
deal of the privacy people want is provided to them. No hanging
around courthouses with total strangers listening to the details of
one's private life.
Also, once the referee is appointed, the parties need attend no
more
case status conferences in the Family Division, which often take time
while accomplishing nothing.
Hearings before referees are less formal than court
trials.
Therefore, preparation time is often much less, and there are no false
starts with the case being prepared and not reached on the trailing
docket. This results in the case costing a lot less to
resolve. Therefore, the cost of a reference is less than the
costs that are generated by taking the case to trial in court.